You can achieve what you want In Life

"Everything you ever wanted, is on the other side of fear."

~ George Addair

I have personally felt this in my life. I have always doubted myself, but when i became fearless and tried the things which i thought i couldn't, i have overcame it.

Pain, discomfort, shock, boredom, impostor syndrome, awkwardness, fear, being wrong, failing, ignorance, looking stupid : Our avoidance of this feelings is stopping us from life we want to achieve.

When you feel fear and do it anyways, you get the satisfaction. After you overcome something, you feel like "why haven't i done this before?". You get the satisfaction of getting the work done and living your life on your own terms.

Make Decision and Act

One of the things that helped me to stay up to the decisions, is to write the things I want to do in a day, and then follow it to complete it in a day.

Life is learning process. We all learn, no one born knowing all, and I also get distracted. But, making your mind strong enough and to train it, you must have control over it. 

If you have control over yourself, you can achieve the life you adore. 

I have been doing this trick in my life, here i am sharing it with all of you.

When you want to do some work, create an alarm. suppose, lets say 1 hour from start point. In that period of time, you won't do nothing but what you decided to do. After one hour, you can take break of 15 min, and then start the alarm again. 

I am pretty sure, even in 1 hour you will feel like, Oh, I have done a lot of work in just an hour.

Making decisions are easy. Acting upon it, is the key. In life, when the why is strong enough, you will be willing to do it any how. 

Why some people are successful and others aren't? The truth is, no action, no planning and no control on themselves to have that patience, sacrifice in life to achieve success in life. 

All in all, Actions speaks louder than words. I would now encourage you to forget complaining and blaming god or luck for not having life you want. Its you, and yourself stopping you from achieving those things.

Organizing, planning and doing the work that matters bring success, and all of us have that potential as human. Its just matter of time to realize and utilizing it.

Start small

I believe - success is an evolution of small wins. You won't see anyone getting successful in life in a short time. You keep doing little work everyday, and after years, you will have experience and skills that amazes others! 

Start small, Complete it, and keep repeating! 

There will be times, you will feel completely lost. Having no sign of goodness in the work you do, but you keep doing it, and the end result of patience will give you the best satisfaction you will ever have.

In the end, everything you want in life, its there, available to you. All you need is an effort to get to it and use your potential.

So, start working....

If you have any questions, leave your comment! 

Thanks for reading..

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